best time get pregnant

best time get pregnant

This is a very broad question and can encompass many things. You may be referring to how soon after marriage, or what time of day, what season, spring, fall, summer, or winter, or even perhaps the best time of month. Since I cannot read minds, I will briefly discuss them all.

Let me start with marriage, when two people first get married everything is great for a while. Some couple will remain in love with each other their entire life, while others find themselves in turmoil not long after the honeymoon wears off. It is for this reason that you should wait a little while before deciding to have children.

The sad statistic is, 75% of relationships end within a year, and the divorce rate in the US alone is at about 60%. So, give the marriage some time before bringing a child into the world, as a broken marriage is very difficult on children.

Now, assuming you have been married or in a relationship long enough to know it is a good one, and you now are planning to have children, you may or may not have given thought to what time of year you want your child born. The two things to look at here from the child's perspective are:

The age they will be when they start kindergarten. If they are born after the school year starts they are going to be six years old when they start because most schools, if not all, require a child to be five years of age before starting school. Being much older than their classmates can have a significant bearing on them emotionally.
This second thing, because many friends I had when young went through this, being born close to a holiday where gifts are given for example, Christmas. This is because, as a child, they believe they are getting cheated out of presents, as many parents tend to combine the birthday with the holiday as well as the gifts. And again, many children believe if they were born in June they would have received more gifts, whether this is true or not, will not matter, they will believe it anyway.
The only thing to look at from the couples perspective as far the seasons go, is winter. If you live in an area where there are many snow bound days, you need to keep in mind that if the delivery takes place during a blizzard, you may not be able to get to the hospital. Are you ready to deliver the baby at home? That is something you should look into if your due date is in the middle of winter, and be prepared for it.

For the last one, what time of the month is the best time to get pregnant, is a question that normally is asked by couples having a hard time conceiving. If this is the case, then you can answer the question on your own by simply tracking your ovulation cycle. Your best chance of getting pregnant is when the woman is ovulating, and the most common way to determine when that is, is to use body temperature. If you do not want to track it then, have sex every day of the month, otherwise it will be hit or miss.

The bottom line is the best time to get pregnant is when you, and your partner, feel the time is right to start a family. There is nothing more wonderful than having children and watching them, as they grow up to be fine upstanding citizens with good ethical and moral values.